Yet I struggle with Christmas. I get drawn into toy isles at the store and drool over all the things I want to lavish upon my children. Then I come home and see that they have more toys than we have room for and they don't need any of the things that I thought were so amazing only hours earlier. I find that at Christmas time I have many inward battles over staying in budget or buying the things that look so cool for my kids. I can easily get sucked into the commercialism of Christmas, but I don't want to. This year we have decided that we are not buying gifts for our kids, now before you all think I am horrible, let me tell you, we are making gifts. I am making them each a monkey stuffed animal. Monkeys are very loved in our house. My husband is making them gifts too. My kids love to make things and love seeing the time that goes into making gifts, so I know they will be appreciated. Birthdays can be all about them and the fun gifts they get, we will be buying things for that, but I want Christmas to be about Christ and his birth, about love and sacrifice.
A few years ago when money was really tight and we really couldn't afford to buy gifts we started some traditions that our family has loved and has carried on. Not only did being broke show the importance of celebrating what Christmas is really about, but it also allowed us to see God provide in amazing ways. My husband ended up winning a drawing he entered at work and got an amazing maker kit with cool color pages, the designs showed up once you started to color on the paper. My eldest daughter opened it up on Christmas morning, she then spent hours coloring, it was a gift that truly suited her. Of course it would, God provided it. Then a friend ended up with two of the same ball blowing toys and gave us one. Our son opened it on Christmas, he too loved his gift and spent hours playing with it. How amazing it is to see that, in spite of our lack of financial ability that year, God provided a gift for our kids to open on Christmas morning, a gift that matched their desires. God is so good at providing for our needs all the time and even our wants. He is the best gift of all.
The year it started. |
We then enjoy the day celebrating Jesus and we slowly open presents, remembering that Jesus is the best present of all. Some years we also make a pizza shaped in a Christmas tree. We have fun all month preparing for Christmas with baking and making fun things to give as gifts to others. I like instilling in my kids the joy of giving and the joy for Jesus all year, but especially at Christmas time.
How do you make Christmas a Christ centered celebration?
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